How To Free Yourself from the Fear of Betrayal
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Coach , writes… …
“I don’t wish to be hurt again, but I really want to reach my soul mate. How can I gain confidence and find my soul mate”?
You have two options to go here. 1) You can wait until you have had adequate time in between the pain in your past relationship or 2) start moving on and letting go of the past. Considering you want to reach your soul mate, then I would do the work in releasing. It is quicker and easier than you would imagine. Receiving help from a certified relationship life coach can smooth the road.
Receiving guidance to do release work is a way of releasing and freeing yourself from your past. Think of emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You’re creating new space for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.
I realize some of you are crying “Yeah but, I do not think he really needs to be forgiven for his behavior. He wronged me and that is just that”! The energy it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You’re allowing your happiness to be drained away from you. It’s a slow leak in your energy field and after a while, it will deplete you, if it has not already. Furthermore, that little energy trickle prevents you from letting all of your mind focused in the present moment. When you do not have your power in the moment, do you think you’re going to be a powerful, deliberate creator? It makes it that much more impairing. Take your full potential back by releasing and letting go of your past relationship, of judgements that burden you, muss up your energy field and block you from going in the right direction to creating the life you were born to live. You can increase the speed of the process immensely by getting help from a life coach.
I have found that the idea of forgiving can be a convoluted one. Firstly, I am not talking about the kind of forgiveness where we were excusing someone’s poor behavior. It is essential to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel concerning who you desire in your life and who you do not, how you want to spend your life and with whom. It is essential to realize what works for you and what doesn’t. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the space of pain, you will either create more pain or have a difficult time being truly fulfilled with love. So first, expunge the old hurt, then release and let in new love.